Powerless But Not Helpless
Jun 29, 2020
When I first came to S-Anon, I could readily admit my unmanageability. I was working two jobs because most of my husband’s income went to support his sexual acting out or to one new business scheme after another. Even though...
Read MoreSurrender Leads to Freedom
Jan 27, 2020
Step Three suggests that we make a decision to surrender our lives, one day at a time, to our Higher Power, and for most of us this involved both a formal decision and a process. We first made a decision...
Read MoreComing to Believe
Dec 16, 2019
In Step One we finally accepted that we could not recover alone. But who could help us out of the emptiness created when we admitted our own powerlessness over sexaholism? At this point, some of us were tempted to fill...
Read MoreHit Your Knees
Sep 9, 2019
My parents were not religious at all, and I was brought up with more of an ethnic and cultural identity than a religious one. When I met the man I would marry, I found that his family was much more...
Read MoreTake the Action, and the Feelings Will Come
Jul 15, 2019
I did not come willingly to Twelfth Step work. My sponsor, the S-Anon literature and other meeting members suggested to me that while it is very important to work all Twelve Steps, I did not necessarily need to finish Steps...
Read MoreCarrying the Message
Jun 3, 2019
The gratitude I have for this program also leads me to carry the message by making an extra effort to welcome newcomers and to help them understand the program. Whether it is answering the phone line, leading a newcomers’ meeting...
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