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Becoming Accountable for Our Choices
Aug 20, 2018
Step Eight suggested that we begin to "own" our character defects and take responsibility for the choices we made, but many of us were so accustomed to thinking of ourselves as the wronged party that we could not see how...
Read MoreThe Structure of My Recovery
Jul 30, 2018
Sex addiction came into my life seemingly out of nowhere. It felt like a big, black train in the night. After some serious step-work leading to self-examination, I realized that the “train whistles” had been very loud, and obvious. I...
Read MoreSex Is Optional…
Jul 16, 2018
I felt resentful when my spouse told me that we would need to go through a period of abstinence. It wasn’t so much that I missed having sex with him, I just resented being told what to do by a...
Read MoreHumility
Jun 25, 2018
My first S-Anon meeting was at an International Convention since there were no S-Anon meetings in my area. My husband, who was in SA, wanted to go to the convention and wanted me to go, too. I was scared. I...
Read MoreQuiet Time
Jun 4, 2018
It’s so hard for me to sit down for some quiet time with my Higher Power. I know an uncontrollable fear is at the root of this. I fear the challenges that I must face if I am honest with...
Read MoreRecognizing Loss of Sobriety
May 14, 2018
I struggle with my sobriety often, and I can certainly define what it isn’t. I know that I have lost it when I dig through my spouse’s briefcase to read his journal. I know that I have lost it when...
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