Progress Not Perfection
Dec 23, 2024
As we start to practice the principles of the S-Anon Program, positive changes occur in our perspectives and actions. At times our progress seems slow, but we learn to appreciate progress and not demand perfection. Sometimes it takes a while...
Read MoreFacing my Fear
Oct 7, 2024
Like many others, I believed that sex was the most important sign of love. I looked for reassurance through sex; when my husband found me sexually attractive, then I felt like a worthwhile person. I thought that if it weren’t...
Read MoreFinding My Voice
Jul 22, 2024
When I attended my first S-Anon meetings, I could only listen. My voice just choked up when I simply tried to read any of the opening meeting materials. I listened to others share things to which I could and sometimes...
Read MoreAdult Child of a Sexaholic
May 13, 2024
My father’s sexaholism had a profound impact on me. I lived under a cloud of impending disaster, even when things were going fine. I couldn’t see the harmful effects on my life of living with and reacting to that dread....
Read MoreAchieving Balance
Feb 26, 2024
When I began my recovery, my children were all in elementary school. Our home had an atmosphere of tension and insecurity.I was bound and determined to be the perfect mother—loving, compassionate, understanding—but I really did not know how to manifest...
Read MoreHoping in a Higher Power
Dec 25, 2023
The only solution to my fear, my desire to control and my feelings of victimization has been to live one minute at a time and to act as if I trust God, even when I don’t. I look back on...
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