Walking in the Light…
Jun 23, 2025
Every time I share about my experiences with sexaholism and what happened to me throughout my childhood, my adult life, and my marriage the pain decreases. I can see more clearly now that I am speaking the truth about my...
Read MoreFear of Intimacy
Jun 9, 2025
I have been afraid to communicate with my spouse, especially regarding difficult subjects. I tend to avoid saying anything, or I tell little white lies because sometimes I feel afraid to tell the truth. But recently when my husband said...
Read MoreLet Go and Let God
Mar 24, 2025
I wish I could just surrender my fears once and for all. I think I have let go of a concern or fear, and a few moments later I realize I’m trying to figure it out again. So I breathe...
Read MoreProgress Not Perfection
Dec 23, 2024
As we start to practice the principles of the S-Anon Program, positive changes occur in our perspectives and actions. At times our progress seems slow, but we learn to appreciate progress and not demand perfection. Sometimes it takes a while...
Read MoreFacing my Fear
Oct 7, 2024
Like many others, I believed that sex was the most important sign of love. I looked for reassurance through sex; when my husband found me sexually attractive, then I felt like a worthwhile person. I thought that if it weren’t...
Read MoreFinding My Voice
Jul 22, 2024
When I attended my first S-Anon meetings, I could only listen. My voice just choked up when I simply tried to read any of the opening meeting materials. I listened to others share things to which I could and sometimes...
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