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Letting Go of Control
Sep 12, 2022
When I decided that I couldn’t fix our marriage and that I could only participate in it, it finally began to be a real marriage for me. When I finally stopped viewing it as a term paper or a class...
Read MoreWe cannot cure it…
Jul 11, 2022
"I wonder if I’m really a sexaholic," my husband said one day, about a year into recovery. "Maybe I really don’t need those meetings and the program." Panic overwhelmed me, and in my mind’s eye I could see nothing but...
Read MoreHonesty or HONESTY?
May 9, 2022
Are there two types of honesty? For me, there seem to be. First is the Ego-Boosting kind where I look like such an honest person. For example, I may have returned something given to me by mistake or corrected a...
Read MoreMy Daughter’s Sexaholism
Mar 7, 2022
My daughter was the second sex addict who deeply affected my life. Her sexaholism drew her into a relationship with a person who was on probation and had a criminal record. She would listen to no one; she had all...
Read MoreMost Important Sign of Love?
Jan 10, 2022
Not having sex with my husband? It was a revolutionary idea! Our marriage was, so I thought, based on sex. What was going to happen if we did not have sex? Part of the sexual addiction in our home showed...
Read MoreNo Guarantees
Nov 1, 2021
Nothing in life is guaranteed. Despite actively working his recovery program, weekly counseling sessions, and a long period of sobriety, my husband recently had a relapse. This was very painful and frightening for me. Even though I was hurting, I...
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