My Daughter’s Sexaholism
Mar 7, 2022
My daughter was the second sex addict who deeply affected my life. Her sexaholism drew her into a relationship with a person who was on probation and had a criminal record. She would listen to no one; she had all...
Read MorePeople Who Understood my Pain
Oct 12, 2021
I went to my first meeting immediately after learning that my husband’s string of affairs was an addiction to lust. I was in so much pain from the discovery of the betrayal I was desperate enough to try anything. I...
Read MoreLetting Go of My Need to Control
Mar 1, 2017
S-Anon is helping me to see that just as lust is a serious problem for the sexaholic, my need to control is also a serious problem for me. When that character defect of being controlling is active in my life,...
Read MoreFinding Peace in My Fellowship
Feb 7, 2017
Before I had a name for it, I felt the presence of sexaholism creeping into our homes: less laughter, more criticism, lies, excuses, hostility, no eye contact and, perhaps most painful, the emotional distance in our sexual relations. I felt...
Read MoreSponsorship…Understanding
Dec 28, 2016
I asked a member to be my sponsor because I felt I needed to connect with someone regularly. I don't talk to her every day, but she has heard my story more completely than anyone else, and when I call...
Read MoreSomeone Who Understands
Dec 15, 2016
Once I learned that S-Anon existed, I knew I would attend, but my motives were mixed. Mostly I felt that I “should” go, to be the loving wife that could never be accused of not supporting her husband, an addict....
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