Simple Slogans for Simple Solutions

Simple Slogans for Simple Solutions

 February 24, 2020

The slogans are spiritual tools for living. Here are a few taken from one member’s list of helpful slogans. Take what you like and leave the rest.

  • The Serenity Prayer
  • The Third Step Prayer
  • The Seventh Step Prayer
  • Keep Coming Back
  • It Works If You Work It
  • One Day At A Time
  • This Too Shall Pass
  • Listen and Learn
  • First Things First
  • Easy Does It
  • Let Go And Let God
  • Where You Are From Doesn’t Matter, It’s Where You Are Going That Is Important
  • Progress Not Perfection
  • Hold On For The Miracle
  • Think
  • Keep It Simple
  • Live And Let Live
  • Fake It Till You Make It
  • I Can’t, But We Can! I Can’t, But God Can!
  • If I Keep Doing What I’ve Always Done, I’ll Keep Getting What I’ve Always Got!
  • But For The Grace Of God Go I
  • How Important Is It?
  • Just For Today
  • Keep An Open Mind
  • HOW — Honest, Open & Willing
  • Let It Begin With Me
  • Mind Your Own Business
  • Love, Learn & Grow
  • Principles Above Personalities
  • Act As If…
  • If You Spot It, You Got It
  • If the Problem Hurts, The Solution Heals
  • Listen With New Ears
  • The Answers Are In The Steps, Traditions & Concepts; The SOLUTION Is In Working Them!

Reprinted from the Fall 2010 issue of S-Anews©.

Simple Solutions

 February 10, 2020

At one of my first meetings, “slogans” was the topic of discussion. I smugly thought, “I can’t believe they really use these cliches.” My academic values had taught me to think that life’s problems had to be solved by complex solutions from deep thinkers. But the more I came to meetings and began working the S-Anon program, the more I saw the real wisdom in the simple sayings. “Act as if…” and “Keep It Simple” are surprisingly practical and helped me through difficult, emotionally-draining situations.

Reprinted from Working the S-Anon Program, 2nd Edition, page 51.


Surrender Leads to Freedom

 January 27, 2020

Step Three suggests that we make a decision to surrender our lives, one day at a time, to our Higher Power, and for most of us this involved both a formal decision and a process. We first made a decision to turn over our efforts to control or ignore the sexaholism of our loved one and our reactions to it. The peace of mind and serenity that results from daily practice of this Step made us increasingly willing to surrender more and more areas of our lives until we found ourselves truly wanting to turn over our entire will and lives to the care of God as we understood God. We found that surrender was no longer a dreadful prospect, it was our freedom from mental and emotional slavery.

Reprinted from S-Anon Twelve Steps, page 36.

One Day at a Time

 January 13, 2020

It seems to me that the 24-hour day is a unit of measure that God created to help us learn to deal with our problems and pleasures. The slogan “One Day at a Time” reminds me of this daily rhythm. Within the time period framed by sunrise and sunset, I face the toil and pleasures of life. Then there is rest, as I temporarily let go of my problems and lay my mind and body to rest to replenish my reserve.

I find this daily rhythm echoed within the Twelve Steps. I work the S-Anon program as hard as I can, share in fellowship, and do service “Just for Today.” Then I can rest and let go of unfinished business through working Step Ten, trusting God to hold it for me while I slumber. Upon awakening, I work Step Eleven and renew my awareness that, for this day only and with God’s help, I will have the ability to tackle all the day will hold.

S-Anon has taught me that I need not be overwhelmed if I employ the tools of the program. Recovery in my day-to-day tasks and interactions is one of my greatest rewards.

Reprinted from S-Anon’s Reflections of Hope, page 299.

My Highest Power

 December 30, 2019

To my delight, in the process of pursing this spiritual journey, I have discovered that this God, whom I am growing increasingly attached to, is even more than my Higher Power. He is my Highest Power! What is the difference between the two? This seemingly minor distinction has been life-changing for me!

I like visual imagery. Here are type analogies to describe my idea of Higher versus Highest. My Higher Power is like an expansive, strong umbrella — one so reliable that I know it will never tear at the edges or get whipped inside out, even in the nastiest wind! It’s comforting to picture my vulnerable self being safely sheltered when I’m caught in the rain.

My Highest Power is like a strikingly robust, weather-savvy figure that appears in the midst of the rain. To my surprise and relief, He leads me with a strong, confident arm to an inviting lodge that is warm and dry. A fire is glowing in the hearth. A hot drink is waiting for me next to an afghan-bedecked chair. I see a bountiful pile of logs being carried in by strong arms, each piece waiting its turn to kindle the fire that reassures me of my safety. My intuition tells me that this Host is trustworthy. He looks me honestly in the eye when we talk, but he is not over-bearing. I notice that He is gracious and considerate but not care-taking! He is sizable, but not the least bit threatening. His protection and strength fill me with a sense of serenity, and I cannot help but feel safe and secure.

The distinction is perhaps not so subtle. My image of my Higher Power was a good start for me… but it has grown into a much deeper, more personal relationship — one that I am grateful to say has become the most meaningful relationship in my life. I have been led out of the storm and into a protective, nurturing refuge — the home of the Highest Power in the cosmos.

Reprinted from the Winter 2009 issue of S-Anews©.

Coming to Believe

 December 16, 2019

In Step One we finally accepted that we could not recover alone. But who could help us out of the emptiness created when we admitted our own powerlessness over sexaholism? At this point, some of us were tempted to fill the void with people, activities or even substances, but we found only a real Higher Power could truly help us. We were relieved to discover that Step Two suggested only that we admit that we were not the greatest power in the universe. That recognition laid the foundation for “coming to believe” — a process of becoming aware of the presence of a Higher Power in our lives.

Some of us had preconceived ideas about God that stood in our way, particularly if we had been hurt by people whose religious attitudes were controlling or punishing. Others were uneasy about the differing spiritual views of group members. However, if our old ideas about God, religion or spirituality had not worked well for us in the past, we were encouraged to begin a new relationship with the Higher Power of our own understanding. In this regard it helped some of us to recognize that we had allowed our spiritual lives to stagnate in the turmoil of trying to deal with sexaholism, so it was not surprising that our understanding of God had not kept up with our growth in other areas of our lives. The wisdom of the ages seems to agree that it is not only all right, but necessary to develop and maintain a concept of God that meets our changing understanding of ourselves and our world, as long as it is a power greater than ourselves. Through our growing trust in this Higher Power, sanity is restored in our lives, and we move toward peace, serenity, and useful lives.

Those of us who resisted the idea that we needed to be “restored to sanity” were encouraged to return to our First Step writing and remind ourselves of the many ways in which our lives had become unmanageable. Many of us even found that after weeks or months of listening to the experience of others in meetings, we became aware at a deeper level of our own powerlessness over sexaholism and the need for a Higher Power to restore us.

Reprinted from S-Anon Twelve Steps, pages 23-24.

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