Progress Not Perfection…
Nov 13, 2017
Another way we work the Twelfth Step is to do service work in our “home” group (the group we attend regularly — the one in which we feel most comfortable). We can help set up the chairs and literature before...
Read MorePowerless Over Others
Oct 16, 2017
I was orphaned at 14 and went to live with my sister and her family. Her husband was the first sexaholic in my life. I was very needy, fragile, and impressionable. I soaked up any attention I could get and...
Read MoreI Must Stop Playing God in My Partner’s Life…
Sep 25, 2017
When I feel the urge to try to be my husband’s “sponsor,” I know I need to do two things. First, I can put one of the S-Anon slogans into practice, and “keep the focus on myself.” I can ask myself...
Read MorePutting our Sobriety First
Sep 4, 2017
We find that each of us has particular behaviors and attitudes that we have found to be destructive to ourselves and that we hope to eliminate, thus becoming more “sober.” Some of us wanted to let go of behaviors like...
Read MoreThe Serenity Prayer – My Guide to Living
Jul 24, 2017
The Serenity Prayer helps me realize the difference between my responsibility and the other person’s responsibility. It involves taking control of myself and letting go of my control of others’ actions and opinions. That’s easier said than done, though, and...
Read MoreWe Admitted We Were Powerless Over Sexaholism…
Jun 26, 2017
Our numerous and diverse attempts to control or deny sexaholism brought us to the point of despair. We saw that our lives were unmanageable, and we had exhausted our reserves. Only through this utter surrender did we find strength and...
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