My Anniversary Coins
Mar 25, 2024
My first six months in S-Anon were marked with trauma about all the discoveries in my 20 plus years of marriage. I was focused on what I thought I had and on fears about what I might lose. I went...
Read MoreLetting Go of My Spouse’s Program
Jan 8, 2024
"I wonder if I’m really a sexaholic after all," said my husband one day after a year or so in recovery. "Maybe I really don’t need those meetings and the program." Panic overwhelmed me, and in my mind’s eye, I...
Read MoreForgiveness
Oct 8, 2023
“My husband/wife says they’re sorry, but how can I ever forgive them after what they did to me?” “I’ll never forgive my parents!” “Why should I forgive him? He still doesn’t admit he did anything wrong!” Other members of S-Anon...
Read MoreGrowing Through Service
Aug 22, 2023
I’d like to share with you the wonderful results in my own daily life of “trying to carry the message to others.” Many years ago, the Los Angeles S-Anon groups voted to take on the responsibility of housing S-Anon's “central...
Read MoreWhat Is Sobriety in S-Anon?
Jun 26, 2023
I have heard sexual addiction defined as a disease of the mind, and I believe this is true for those of us in S-Anon as well. As an S-Anon member for over three years, I have been recovering from my...
Read MoreSingle In S-Anon
Apr 24, 2023
Some married S-Anons new to our program express surprise at seeing so many single S-Anon members regularly attending meetings. “Why do you need to go if you’re no longer married to the sexaholic?” they ask. The reason that we go...
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