Becoming Self-Supporting
Oct 2, 2017
I used to look to my husband to take care of all my needs, but through my working my program, I have seen that I need to grow up and take responsibility for myself. I have learned to lean on my...
Read MoreThe Only Person I Can Change Is Me
Sep 11, 2017
I tried everything to change the sexaholic. I was silent. I was angry. I begged, pleaded, and manipulated. Nothing worked. I just brought myself more frustration, hurt, resentment, and misery. S-Anon is helping me learn I need to let go...
Read MoreI Don’t Get to Decide If Another Person Recovers
Aug 21, 2017
When I first came to S-Anon, I wasn’t sure if sexaholism was a problem in my marriage, but the longer I stayed, the harder it became to deny it. Under the guise of “sharing my feelings,” I spent the next...
Read MoreTrusting with Eyes Wide Open
Aug 8, 2017
I came into S-Anon with broken trust. My sexaholic husband had betrayed me, and I no longer trusted anything he said or did. I see now that I didn’t even trust myself or know how to trust a Higher Power....
Read MoreSurrendering with the Serenity Prayer
Jul 10, 2017
I am constantly amazed at how much importance I place on what others think of me. I remember times when my partner, a friend, or a parent was angry with me and criticized me harshly. Their judgments and low opinions...
Read MorePowerless…Not an Admission of Failure
Jun 12, 2017
I always thought that if I read a book or took a class on a subject, I could learn enough to tackle any task or solve any problem. I lived under this illusion for 43 years until I discovered my...
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