Filling the Vacuum
Feb 12, 2024
In my first science class, years ago, I learned a fact that intrigued me: nature abhors a vacuum. I was reminded of that fact of nature recently at an S-Anon meeting. A member spoke words that could have come right...
Read MoreI Like What I See
Nov 14, 2023
Before coming to S-Anon, I couldn't understand how I ended up in a relationship where lies, deception, and betrayal were common. I could barely look at myself in the mirror without feeling shame and humiliation. I felt resentful toward my...
Read MoreI Chose to Respond
Sep 4, 2023
One day, my spouse seemed especially irritable. I asked if he was O.K., and he responded by handing me a stack of papers. I immediately read the papers and discovered they were a new disclosure about his sexaholism. Today I...
Read MoreMy Opinion Has Value
Jul 10, 2023
One of the hallmarks of my unhealthy thinking and behavior is my tendency to not express my opinion. I often go along with another person’s opinion instead of considering what I believe. S-Anon helped me to see that having no...
Read MoreSeeing God’s Handiwork
May 8, 2023
For the longest time, I struggled with seeing how God was working in my life and my marriage. I not only felt God owed me something (a godly husband, a healthy marriage, and children), I thought the life I was...
Read MoreDancing to a New Tune
Mar 13, 2023
In a stormy period before recovery, my sexaholic husband and I attempted to take dance lessons. After three sessions we stopped speaking to one another. That was the end of dance lessons. We did what we often did back then...
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